Dear ,

I see that many of you don't know how to be successful on dating apps so I'm gonna share some tips around them. 

It is strictly -- and I mean STRICTLY -- a numbers and algorithm game. Much like life, if you want to be successful at anything you try, you need to try and try and try again, figure out the rules, and keep trying.

Which is exactly why if you put in too much effort initially, you'll get burnt out. 

Think of dating apps as a micro-representation of the city you're in. 

Yea, there are a lot of dusties and weirdos online but honey, these are also real people that live in your city. 

Meaning, there are just as many undesirable men online as there are offline. 

At least with dating apps, you can sus them out quicker. 

You're presented with more initial information and you don't risk getting dazed or swept off of your feet by some guy's potential charm like in real life.

Also, DO NOT just focus on one guy you're interested in. 

None of this "I just really want focus on getting to know him" because this is a recipe for disaster. What you focus on and give your energy to, you're investing in. You know what happens when you invest? YOU'RE COMMITTED. 

This is how you end up developing feelings because he's your only option!

We'll talk about how to stay emotionally disciplined so you don't get so involved during the dating phase (and get into the wrong relationships) inside my 3-day Valentine's Day Bootcamp here.

You need to create more options for yourself by dating multiple men. 

Until you are mutually exclusive and he has said that and you have both agreed, and you are officially his girlfriend... otherwise you are SINGLE.

You are trying to find the best man for yourself. Just like he is trying to find the best girl for him. 

You need to have options in order to compare and see who is trying their best for you, who wants you the most, who is the most CONSISTENT through their actions and effort.

Bestie, stay positive, keep swiping, and be your best self living your best life because it really is a numbers game and I know you can beat it and attract high quality guys!

I love you!

Nadeen Hui xo

P.S. I'm teaching a VIP session inside my Valentine's Day Dating Bootcamp on advanced female to male effective communication, i.e: how to get your way and the things you want. Join here if you want to learn: www.vdaydatingbootcamp.com/

P.P.S: this is part of my 14 day dating advice series so if you don't see the preceding ones, check your spam! Otherwise, you can view my previous newsletters in my hub here.