Dear ,

If a guy ever tells you that you deserve someone better than him or he's not good enough for you... RUN.

I don't know what in the male manipulation psychology, but I really think they know exactly what they're doing when they say this. 

They're trying to see if you would lower your standards because you want him more. 

Most girls who hear this are like "aww... no, you're good enough!" And she'll try to console him and prove to him WHY he's enough...

What the eff?! Why are you helping him prove himself to you? Why are you helping him to prove himself wrong? 

He's literally telling you that he's not good enough for you a.k.a. he can't treat you the way you deserve to be treated. 

And if you disagree with him, you're letting him know that you're willing to accept less. 

You're boosting his ego by letting him know his bare minimum effort is enough for you.

You're letting him know that you're not as amazing as he's making you out to be and that you don't require much.

Just imagine being with a man who's completely in love with you and does his best to pursue you and prove to you he's the man for you...

You think he's gonna think he's not good enough? 

No girl, he's gonna think he's the BEST MAN FOR YOU. 

He's gonna show you no other man in the world can love you and treat you like he can.  

The type of guy to tell you that he's no good for you is not insecure. I repeat, he is NOT insecure. 

He's just looking for a way to get you to lower your own standards. And let's say even if he was insecure, , you're not gonna want that man anyways. 

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Much love,

Your big sis - Nadeen

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