Hi !

Ever felt like you're putting your all into a relationship only to receive a fraction in return? You're not alone in this tango of mixed efforts. Many women find themselves dancing solo in the effort department while their men are more than happy sitting this one out. 

Lack of effort from our partners can manifest in various ways. Half-hearted "Happy Birthdays" and no gifts or he got you something he wanted? Or if you've felt his indifference about you that he doesn't even bother to ask about your day? 

It's not just about forgetting anniversaries or skimping on affection; it's the everyday indifference that chips away at the connection you're trying so hard to build and maintain.

But here's where it gets interesting. Our attachment styles, molded from the sandbox days to our first heartbreak, play a massive role in how we communicate (or don't) in relationships. For some, the script from childhood reads, "Keep quiet, and keep the peace," making open, honest chats about feelings really difficult.

And then there's that thing that happens when what use to be special becomes the expected, and a "thank you" is completely disregarded, It's these little things that add up and turn "us" into "me" and "you."

Here's something to think about: imagine a relationship where appreciation flows like your favorite playlist, where efforts are matched like on the perfect eyebrow day, and where growth is a journey you commit to together, hand in hand. 

No one should feel like they are a solo act in a duet. 

Love you babe, 

Nadeen

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