While I can sit here and tell you that's not true, I'd be lying. 

If there is conventionally attractive, then there is by logic, conventionally ugly. 

But , it's not exactly what you think so hear me out. 

(and I am by NO MEANS saying you are babe so don't take this the wrong way!) 

I've had so many men call me ugly 😂 but I've also gotten many many compliments before as well. 

The thing is, you're not gonna be attractive to everyone and you're not gonna be everyone's cup of tea... AND THAT'S OK!

I do not believe in ugly. I believe there is only lazy and broke. 

More the reason to secure yourself as a single soft life girlie before getting a man!

So when girls tell me that they feel like men only go for the prettier girls, my thought is... well, you can be the "prettier" girl too! 

And most of the time, these girlies realize that they weren't showing up as their best selves!

Like we all know pretty privilege is very real, but being pretty can be worked on...and that's the beauty of it. 

Sometimes it's as simple as having your hair done and having on a flattering outfit. Then struttin' your stuff like the world is your runway!

Combine that with some feminine confidence, a bit of fun, flirty playfulness... and WATCH how the people around you change their behavior towards you.

The basic things are absolutely necessary -

• take care of your hair and style it
• work on getting clear glowy skin (some blemish is fine, we're real women, skin has texture ok?)
• take care of your teeth, whiten them, straighten them, whatever 
• keep your nails clean and well groomed, or done if you'd like 
• get your butt moving and get in shape (no need to be a model, but you need to be healthy and fit, at the size and shape you feel the best. if you have body dysmorphia, work on that first!)
• learn how to dress for your body type and know what you look good in
• learn how to do flattering makeup (if you don't want to wear make up and think you look amazing without it, that's ok - total goals babe, like I wish that was me 😂 But if you don't think you're pretty and you complain about not being pretty, but you don't want to work on it... then you need to figure that out)

This is entry level babe. Do this first if you just want to physically glow up and instantly feel a difference. 

But if you do only this, the clothes and upgrades will be wearing you, and not the other way around. You need to also build up your self confidence and self concept so that you believe that you are pretty and you are deserving of VIP treatment. 

Don't be the girl who's insecure or feels weird about her newly uncovered beauty!

And all this isn't really just for attracting men, ok? 

It's about becoming the girl you've always wanted to be.

Love you,

Nadeen xx.

P.S: Today's challenge is to cook a healthy meal and clean up right after! Me and my mom are having girl dinner ahhaha I'm making a mini charcuterie board with some crackers, brie cheese, local honey, grapes, berries, smoked salmon, cucumber, and mixed nuts! I'll post a pic on my stories later!

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