Hi ,
Do you keep attracting what I call ‘the starved man'?
Or maybe you're currently stuck in a relationship with one...?
Let me tell you what I mean first…
These types of "starved men" always tend to go for the lover girls, they like to initially shower her with lots and lots of love so that she thinks he's
the one.
But then when he actually has her, he suddenly seems cold and indifferent.
Over time, he drains all of the love and life, all the personality, all the desires from her and leaves her with nothing.
He'll manipulate her, gaslight her, be abusive, but then have good days where he gives her a bit more love just to remind her that he does actually care and he does actually love
her...and she'll stay with him because she also loves him and things aren't that bad and he's changed!
But slowly, he'll tear down her self-worth and self-esteem and downgrade her to such an extent that he'll make her feel like he's doing her a favor by staying with someone like her.
Scary isn't it?
This happens way more often than we think.
, you only live once and I do not
wish this upon any woman.
You don't want to attract a man like this and waste years of your life and then spend more years in therapy.
But it's not exactly your choice if that's what you're programmed to attract -- your habits, your traumas, and your past all play a huge role in who you attract and who you're attract to.
It's never about what you want, it's about ‘who you are’ that attracts people into your
life.
You've heard girls say that they're done with f-boys and they'll never date one again, yet guess who her next boyfriend is?
So if you attract toxic men, you need to take a step back and focus on yourself.
To attract a high-value, provider minded, fulfilled man, you'll need to match his frequency/energy level.
Look...you want him to be accomplished, good looking, smart, have a healthy
body, generous, loving, charming, with a positive mindset.
You want him to have everything.
But what about you?
You also have to be what he deeply desires.
So to make this a reality, you have to put effort into yourself, heal the trauma, heal the past, and work on your mind and body so that your subconscious feels worthy of getting attention from the right men.
, you have a whole summer coming up.
It could either be a transformational summer that completely changes who you are and the course of your life... or it can be the same old where you just end up feeling guilty for not doing what you gotta do.
I've been in your shoes and know your struggles.
And thankfully, I ended the cycle of attracting toxicity.
So if you want your dating
life to not drain everything out of you, and you wanna be treated like the most adored prize, and you wanna become the ultimate dream girl this summer….
I encourage you to join my upcoming program, The Elite Dream Girl where I've squeezed in all my strategies on...
- How to heal your past and your mindset to welcome the life and love you want
- How I found my natural attraction type and reinvented my image, style, and wardrobe to enhance my
appeal
- How I worked on myself, mentally, physically, and emotionally to level up my confidence and be a high value babe
- How I didn't chase high-value men, but simply attracted him.
It will also include my game plan that I used to build and solidify new habits that helped me actually accomplish big goals.
I'll be sharing more information as the date of launch gets closer 😉
In the meantime, you can join the waitlist below to
be the first to hear about exclusive offers when enrollment opens.
Join the waitlist here
Love you so much!
Your big sis - Nadeen
P.S: Today's challenge was to give myself a compliment.
This is mine: Nadeen, you are such an amazing woman who is so cute and fun to be around! 😂 Ok, now your turn!
