Hi ,
On my recent IG stories Q&A, I got a question that asked what was something my fiancé saw in me that made him realize I was "the one."
My fiancé was pretty much next to me the whole time (except for when I lost him inside the store lol) so I asked him your questions directly.
Funny thing is, it was INCREDIBLY difficult for him to understand this question. And I had to keep explaining to him that I wanted a list of qualities.
But he kept saying that he just knew, he felt like it was love at first sight, the whole package, he
said he just loved my energy, and he was also physically attracted to me.
I already knew this 😂 He had called our mutual friend shortly after meeting me and was like "she's the one!"
The thing is, I've seen this happen so often with men.
They just KNOW.
It's always initially physical attraction then that attraction is solidified by her personality -- or how he feels when he's around
her.
If you fit the narrative and the story that these men tell themselves, it just clicks for them.
We can't use our woman-brain to assume that men think and behave like us.
Yes, men have standards and expectations too, but they are not the same as the things we consider.
So remember that.
Men who want you do not need to be
convinced.
Which is more the reason to focus on yourself and live your best life because that's what's ultimately going to attract him.
WHO you are is the key.
Of course, there are things you can fine tune like if you feel like you're too in your masculine and stressed, or you need stronger boundaries, or you have to raise your standards, or maybe you need a physical glow up... but those are all
FOR YOUR own good.
Love you lots,
Nadeen Hui xx.
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