Hi ,
I took a few days off for a mini vacation with my mama and something that I've really noticed is exactly how much I have changed since the last time we traveled together - which was about 5 years ago.
As much as I love and cherish my time with her, this past trip felt really stressful and I was so uncomfortable for how much
she relied on me for EVERYTHING.
Now, I'm not gonna vent to you girls but let's just say, everything that I would expect my fiancé to handle when we're traveling, I had to do for her.
And if she was a relaxed, easy going, positive woman, this would have been a breeze. We would have both figured things out together, kept it stress-free and enjoyed our time.
But she loveeees to complain about every. single.
thing.
And the slightest inconvenience annoys her.
She's only like this with me though - when she travels with her girlfriends, she's fine lol.
Old me would have tried to do everything to make her happy and it still wouldn't be enough.
But this time around, I stood firm and pushed back.
And I even talked to her, woman to woman, about how she needed to try really hard to change her mindset
because it was ruining her life and her relationships.
So to share the number 1 thing I worked on that helped me improve my relationships and attract better men is that I started to see the beauty in everything...and I stopped complaining and being so negative.
Complaining literally sucks the joy out of life because you could TOTALLY be enjoying the moment or the experience, and see things from a positive light, but you also can ruin it by trying
to see all the downsides and negative parts of it.
So if you're unhappy with your love life or your life in general, check internally to see if you complain a lot.
Do you complain about men? About bad dates? About how there's no good men left? How dating is inconvenient?
Do you complain about how life sucks? How nothing goes your way? How people can't ever do things right?
If you do... then that
may be something you wanna work on.
Love you,
Nadeen
