[The Ripple Effect] Leadership Challenge: Letting Go of Control

Published: Fri, 08/17/12

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Hello everyone!
 
Welcome to the August edition of The Ripple Effect!   Hope you enjoying the final month of summer!   For those of you who know me, you know that summer is my most favorite season.  I love the heat and all the activities of summer, including being out on the water. I grew up spending a lot of time on my Stepdad's boat and had the pleasure of spending a weekend a few weeks ago back on his boat with my family.  (Below is a picture of me with my boyfriend, Matt, as we were approaching Inner Harbor, Baltimore MD).  I hope you find time to do things you love during the last month of summer.
 
Last month's article was about how to take control if your leadership role is in jeopardy (if you missed July's edition of The Ripple Effect, you can access it here). This month's article addresses the alternate topic of letting go of control; that is, the art of delegating.   As many of you know, much of the work we at C3 do involves helping leaders grow and advance.  What holds many leaders back is their inability to relinquish control and empower their teams to take full responsibility for the completion of tasks and projects.  Instead, some leaders stay involved and are too far into the details of things they should no longer be involved in. 

This month's article shares a few tips on how to ease your concerns (or the concerns of the leaders you work with) about delegating so it becomes a natural thing that you do.
 
Hope you find the information helpful and as always, please feel free to pass this along to your team and to any others you feel may benefit from reading it - keep spreading those positive ripple effects!
 

Best always,

Andria
 

 
 Andria and Matt, Inner Harbor, August 2012

 

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    Leadership Challenge: Letting Go Of Control; Three Steps to Help You Master the Art of Delegation.

    One of the great opportunities of leadership is the delegation of tasks to others, which not only frees up your time to be more strategic but also develops those employees to whom you've delegated. Although it is a great opportunity for leaders, it is also a great challenge. Delegating means letting go of a fair amount, if not all, of the control associated with the way tasks are completed. I find this to be a struggle for many leaders, myself included. As the owner of my business, letting go of tasks and delegating to others can be quite a challenge at times. What if they don't do it right? What if they don't get it done on time? What if they upset the clients? These "what if's" can go on forever!  I have tortured myself through many of them and also seen many of my clients do the same.  What I've learned, both personally and through working with others in this area, are some key steps to take to ease concerns about delegating. 

    First, you want to have a high degree of confidence in the people you delegate to; therefore, be diligent in your selection of those you hire to work for you.  Often times leaders are in a hurry to get a position filled so do not take enough time to be sure they are making the best selection.  Without confidence that you have the best people on your team, delegating can be difficult.  Yet, when you know you've got the right people in place, it is much easier to delegate with assurance.

    Second, as you begin delegating, you will probably need a fair amount of updates and status checks on how your team is doing with the tasks. (Usually I need more updates and status checks early in the relationship.) Once you get to know the individuals and their work ethic, and your relationship develops, the amount of check-ins decreases because the expectations are  understood and your confidence in their ability to meet your expectations increases.

    Lastly, you want to change any "what if" comments from negative to positive. So, instead of thinking, "What if they don't do it right?" try, "What if they do it better than I ever could?" Or, "What if this works out better than I thought?" That mindset shift will help you expect the best as opposed to expecting things to go wrong. Does this mean things never go wrong? Of course not but it certainly sets up an environment that is more expectant of success than if you continue to think of all the possible ways things could go wrong.

    Although this is not always easy for leaders, letting go of control and delegating is necessary and highly beneficial for all. It not only enables you, the leader, to focus on more strategic items but it motivates your workforce to take on more responsibility and fosters more employee development.

    This month's development tip:  Have you mastered the art of delegation?  If so, congratulations! We'd love to hear some of your success tactics so please visit our Facebook wall  and share!  If not, follow the suggested steps in this month's article; with each step you should begin to get more comfortable with letting go.

    Andria Corso is the founder of C3 Coaching and Consulting. an Executive Leadership and Career Development Coaching and Consulting firm.  C3's mission is to help our clients reach their highest potential.  Read more about C3 here or contact us to find out how we can help you and your organization reach your greatest success.

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