Today is Mother's Day and Mom's Birthday. I'm out of town today, having some family time that I hope will be enjoyable for her. It's hard to predict these days, and today is bittersweet in some ways because our mother has always been the center of our entire extended family.
When the person who grounds us all is no longer grounded herself, it means that we all have to rewrite our story to go in a new direction.
Human Design is the thing that has guided me through the last year and a half, and it's helped me center myself in a way that I don't know would have happened without it.
But here's what I've learned specifically about rewriting my own story: it is not about controlling everything. You might think of it as "taking control" when you chart your own path, away from what you've been conditioned to do, but it isn't really that so much as learning to let go.
When you can calmly release the NEED to control everything, then life gets easier, and the path ahead gets clearer. If you also have "inside information" that helps to illuminate that path, it gets even easier.
THAT'S what Human Design does.
My sister told me yesterday that I am a calming influence for her, and that she expected that I was "awesome at my job." And she also said that it must be a blessing that my job was one that was also great personal development for ME.
She got that so right! Helping others is such a blessing that I cannot help but be impacted in powerful ways myself. That is the power of using Human Design as a coach. The ability to see my clients with such love is so fulfilling.
In the Quantum Human Design™ Circle Community, we all help each other with reading and understanding our bodygraph charts. Every time I read another chart, I am struck by the beauty it contains. That's the beauty of the human story.
It starts tomorrow, and the daily live calls are short and powerful, and will help you gain a greater vision of not only how to help your clients using their Human Design, but also how to structure your business according to YOURS. (Doing this is crucial to your success and joy.)
My email sign-off used to be "Much Happiness and Success."
I chose that at the time because I KNEW that you could not have success without first having happiness. And I also knew that success was an individual definition. That's what's at the core of Freestyle.
After all, according to Anna Quindlen, “If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.”
That is the success I want for you; success that feels good in your heart. And these days, I help people find that through Human Design and Quantum Conscious Creativity.
If you are a coach and want use HD to help your clients, then go ahead and get signed up for this FREE Challenge.
Once you do, download the workbook and introduce yourself in the community. Mention my name there, and I will say get a notice and say hello to you! We can work through the challenge together, and I'll be your connection in the community.
If you aren't ready to use HD as a coaching tool, but want to know more about Human Design in general, I recommend these other FREE resources from Karen:
Karen's Quantum Human Design™ Basics is the course I recommend starting with, because QHD™ teaches Quantum Creativity as a core fundamental, and the QHD™ language is so empowering and
De-Conditioning by Design is the one you may want to consider if you are feeling stuck or blocked by the expectations of the your family or the world at large, or even by your expectations of yourself.
Conditioning in HD is about how we take in things that are NOT us, and create a narrative about ourselves that just isn't true. This video-based mini-course shows how to use your Human Design chart to stop feeling stuck or that you are somehow "broken."
Your Quantum Life Purpose - This is a very powerful exercise that Karen walks people through to help them discover their life purpose according to certain elements in their Human Design chart. We are all designed
beautifully and perfectly, and knowing these elements will allow you to begin to fulfill your true story. (HINT: Human Design does not tell you WHAT to do, just how you are designed to BE.)