And when we resist what we’re feeling, we’re avoiding the truth of the moment, living in the fantasy of wishing for a better or more peaceful moment.
I can tell you from where I sit, life is so much simpler when we come to peace with our feelings. And I see evidence of this every day in the clients I work with. All it takes is a simple, friendly shift inward
toward what we're experiencing.
In almost every session, at some point I’ll stop the conversation and invite the person I’m speaking with to place one hand on their heart and one on their belly and just be.
It’s a simple reset, a homecoming that turns down the volume on the turbulence of the
mind and creates the possibility of opening into presence.
Where before there were problems, now there’s just sensation, movement, and the open space of being aware. In the moment, problems seem to literally melt away.
Feelings have power only when we think we need to avoid them. But when we
turn our attention toward them and feel what is present, the inner war ends and we’re being honest and authentic with things as they are.
It’s the mind that judges feelings as wrong or scary. When we let go of our interest in these diminishing thoughts and just feel the sensation, there is always an opening into peace.
I woke up last night at around 3am, and my body was filled with vibration. Rather than stressing or resisting, I spent the next hour or two loving these sensations. I had no goal and no agenda to change anything—I was the welcoming presence for whatever was there.
It’s that simple. You let the story line go, and love what’s here. Why? Because it’s
Why not try it? Close your eyes, and place one hand on your heart and the other on your belly. Just be present to whatever appears. You are the presence—loving your experience just as it is.
What is your experience being at war—and at peace—with feelings? I’d love to hear… Please click here to visit GailBrenner.com and to comment.