Want to Connect More Deeply with Your Partner? Here's What to Do. |
This busy and hectic world we live in can leave us disconnected. Working to pay for our lifestyle, spending hours on social media, and texting instead having actual conversations, can keep us hiding behind our mask of loneliness. This mask
doesn’t allow us to experience all of the feelings and emotions that happen with true connection.
Remember the last time you felt deeply connected to someone you dated, or were/are in a relationship with. What were the feelings and emotions that came up inside of you? Chances are you felt happy, content, valued, appreciated, and grounded. You were being your authentic self. You were seen, heard and accepted by your partner. You mattered. Those are the reasons we seek a
meaningful connection. Here are 4 practices to connect with your partner.
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“Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.” — Charles William
Eliot
If you enjoy reading and value books like I do, check out
this Pinterest Board. These books share inspirational and practical messages for love, and personal and spiritual growth.
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Breaking the
Pattern of Neediness
Expecting your partner to meet your needs puts unhealthy pressure on him and the relationship. Ask yourself, "What needs am I trying to get met from the men in my relationships?" Whatever your
answer, meet your own needs first. For instance, if you're constantly looking for validation from these men, you don't feel worthy. This is an opportunity to realize and know your worth.
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Janet Ong Zimmerman is the founder of Love for Successful Women. If you're feeling let down by men and disappointed with love, click here to be notified of online courses that help you attract more of the right men and finally have the love you desire.
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