Why You Should Try Less to Keep His Interest |
If you’re like most women, you’ve made the critical mistake of trying harder to get him to be more interested in you again. You
might initiate more and behave and act in ways to try and please him, so he’ll pay attention to you again. But have you noticed that can have the opposite effect?
Most of us have been there. We try too hard and end up turning off our man because in the act of trying too hard, we devalue ourselves in ways like putting up with his bad behaviors, chasing after him, not questioning red flags, agreeing to things we don’t feel good about, sacrificing our integrity and eventually becoming
his doormat. If you’re in that situation or tend to behave in the above ways, you’re teaching a man to devalue you and treat you poorly.
Here's why you should start relaxing and implement these 5 healthy ways to catch and keep his interest. |
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The Fail-Proof Way to Tell if a Guy Really Likes You |
What he says doesn't matter. Pay attention to THIS instead...
We purposefully convince ourselves that deciphering a man's true interest in us is some challenging mystery, but it’s not. There’s just one thing you need to watch for to know with total clarity when thinking about how to tell if a guy likes you, cares for you, and wants a life with you.
Keep reading to know what you
should pay attention to. |
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Are You Into Him for the Wrong Reasons?
Very often, when you’re obsessing over getting answers, chasing after a guy, or trying hard to make your relationship work, it’s because you’re with a guy for the wrong reasons. When it’s for the wrong reasons, your body will feel stressed, contracted, and uncomfortable a great deal of the time.Am I really into him or am I with him for the wrong reasons?
Take a moment to answer these questions and learn if you’re really into him or if you’re with him for the wrong
reasons.
- Do you try to make things work even though he treats you poorly?
- Are parts of your life on hold because you’re doing mostly what he
wants?
- Are you sacrificing some of your values in order to cater to him?
- Do you tend to lose yourself in romantic relationships?
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you not say what you mean and how you feel because you’re afraid he won’t like you?
- Are you the one giving and doing much more to keep him from leaving?
If you’ve answered yes to many or all of those questions, it means you’re with him for the wrong
reasons. Here’s why – your yes answers are causing you to act in ways that sacrifice your integrity and who you are.
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Janet Ong Zimmerman is the founder of Love for Successful Women. If you're feeling let down by men and disappointed with love, click here to be notified of online courses that help you attract more of the right men and finally have the love you desire.
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