- Do you struggle with conflict in your marriage?
- Does it feel like you are just roommates?
- Do you feel stuck, wondering if your marriage can work?
- Are you continually disappointed with your spouse?
Let us help! I heard something years ago, and my years of living have convinced me it's true:
THE QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE
DEPENDS ON THE QUALITY
OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
You can have money and career success, but if your relationships are bad, then your life will be bad. And if
your relationships are great, even if you don't have all the money and success you want, your life will be great.
The good news? It doesn't have to be a binary choice -- you can have success AND good relationships. But just as it takes energy, skill, and training to build success and wealth, so it is with relationships.
Most of us need help with this.
Most of us need training.
More teaching -- more seminars and books -- probably isn't what you
need. There's an almost infinite amount of self-help info available on the Internet. But it's not helping very many people. Do you know why?
It's because most of us already KNOW what we should do. Our struggle is getting help to actually do it.
Marriage counseling probably isn't what you need. My wife is a Marriage and Family therapist ... and she should know. I've done some marriage counseling myself, and referred couples to other counselors many times over the years. It seldom went very well.
Here's why: Usually in marriage counseling, one spouse wants to be there and the other doesn't. As the counseling proceeds it's hard to make progress because each partner is trying to get the counselor to side with them -- to get the other partner to change.
But even worse: most marriage
counseling focuses on the wrong thing. Instead of focusing on "the marriage" and trying to resolve the latest fight ... what couples NEED is help working on themselves. Help learning HOW to be healthy in a relationship. Help learning what is in their power -- and NOT in their power -- to bring about change.
That's
what Charlene and I focus on in our work with people. We provide a 90 Day transformation program called "Renewed Marriage."
Charlene is a Marriage and Family Therapist, with over a decade of experience working with couples, individuals, and families. I am a pastor, speaker, and coach, and over the past 18 years I've led hundreds of workshops, and
coached over a thousand men on how to strengthen and revive their marriages, and how to grow and be healthy themselves.
Another thing that's different about this program from marriage counseling is that it'll be led by BOTH Charlene and me. I'll work with the men, Charlene with the women. Forget about trying to "get the counsellor on my side." I'll
advocate for the men, and also challenge the men to step up. Charlene will advocate for the women, and also challenge them to step up.
How do I sign up?
If you could use some help and support in your relationships, and you'd like to hear more about the program, just respond to this email and we can set up a time to talk.
Time is of the essence! The inaugural 90 Day program is about to start. This first program will be discounted for those who join.
Just hit "respond" and send me an email with suggested times to talk. we'd love to connect with you.