How to Become the Spark Your Wife Wants to Feel In You

Published: Sun, 03/19/23

Hey brother,

Does your wife lack ENTHUSIASM when you walk in the door?

Does she seem bored or indifferent to you and your desire to connect with her?

Or, has she ever mentioned she wishes you had more friends or a "life of your own"?

Ouch. I know how that can hurt.

After all, being home with your wife and kids IS a good life!

And, spending time laughing, connecting and experiencing life TOGETHER is one reason you got married.

But...are you taking care of YOURSELF? Are you building your own personal sense of purpose, enthusiasm and ZEST for life?

Women LOVE a man with a spark in his eye...but she just doesn't want to BE that spark.

She wants more for her man. She wants more from her man.

And she wants YOU to want that more than she does.

But meeting quality men you can really trust is hard.

You may have a few "B Level" friends who can talk beer, sports and girls all night.

But do you have any "A Level" men who totally get you? Men who like to go deeper? Men who are fearless and speaking the truth?

What about men who will look you right in the eye and listen to every single word you say without interrupting you or judging you?

I don't know about you, but I absolutely LOVE that sh*t.

This is why we run four retreats each year.

In Fort Collins, Tim Wade and I have run a pizza and beer men's meetup night every two weeks for the last 7 years.

It's what keeps me active and focused on friendships. And it challenges me to show up fully...hiding nothing and holding nothing back.

What about you? Are you that guy too?

On May 28th - May 31st we have a few spots still open for the Confident Man Ranch Retreat. The guys in the picture came in from New Jersey, Boston and London.

(click the picture above for a video we made for you about these retreats)

The smell of the Rocky Mountain air, horse sweat, leather and campfire smoke will haunt you in a good way. And it will follow you back home in your luggage. (the less you know about horses the better!)

The experience is hard to describe because it's so powerful. And wives consistently ask guys, "When are you going back??!!"

These retreat is PERFECT for the man who wants more confidence and skill in managing tension and pressure at home. You'll learn how to lead in a whole new way that will draw curiosity and attention that you haven't seen in a long while.

How's that sound? Click here to learn more about the Ranch Retreat.

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Then on June 29th-July 3rd is the Confident Man UK Retreat.

(click the picture below for a video we made for you about these retreats)

This place in Derbyshire is absolutely amazing.

A huge luxury home on a huge property is our gathering spot. Dan Dore and I will be hosting you in a different kind of experience.

This retreat is PERFECT for a man who has achieved solid confidence and competence in slaying dragons. His work and business life is his strength.

But...he still feels oddly unclear, disconnected and lacks confidence in WHO HE IS in the world...especially is his relationship.

You'll leave this retreat with MORE energy, MORE clarity, and MORE lightness in your heart.

We've designed it to help you relax and be more YOU than you've been for a long time. Click here for more information and to sign up.

How Do You Get Your Wife To Re-engage In Your Lonely Marriage?

If you can't make it to a retreat with us this year, we have LOTS of other ways to connect with great men.

Free: Go HERE to apply for a Free "Rebuild Your Confidence" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow.

Free: Take Our Attractive Husband Self Assessment Here >>

$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in the Men’s Roundtable which is our community of powerful, successful men learning and supporting each other to become leaders in their relationships.

$497: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, coach Tim Wade, and community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

Custom coaching package: Our 1-to-1 Masculine Confidence coaching programs are the fastest way to realizing your full potential as a man on a mission to create the life and relationships you really want.

As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

I simply LOVE doing this work with men because it lights up my life to watch you charge back into your life with a grin on your face and swagger in your step.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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Steven Horsmon

550 Drake Ranch Rd., Livermore, CO 80536, USA

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