The Three Small Words That Will Change Your Life for the Better - May 2018 - The Evolving Heart Newsletter
Published: Fri, 05/11/18
Life Gets
Better
Today
May 2018
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"Forgiveness says you are given another chance to make a new beginning."
Desmond Tutu
The Three Small Words That Will Change Your Life for the Better
To be published soon in the Thrive Global
publication
“Small shifts in your thinking, and small changes in your energy, can lead to massive alterations of your end result.” ― Kevin Michel
So, I called the Westchester Medical Center back and told them I would be willing to donate my kidney to Tony. A lot of testing needed to be done to make sure it was a go, but I committed right then and there to helping a friend in need. For me, no matter what happened from that point forward, there was no turning back.
Over the last five years coaching individuals and teams, I’ve seen a lot of people in deep pain within their relationships, both personal and professional.
The human condition demands that we endure hardship and difficulty on some level but for how long? Do we have to suffer in perpetuity or are there ways to turn the table on our perspective so that we can use suffering to our advantage?
I’ve watched many souls release their mental, emotional, and spiritual pain in an instant. What they say about their state of mind before and after that release is on opposite ends of the scale. Before, they seemed tired, beat up, frustrated, confused, hurt, and constantly questioning. After, they felt relieved, renewed, smiling, clear, refreshed, and certain.
So, what changed for them?
In my experience, it’s three little words.
Here are the game changing phrases that have helped so many find new freedom:
To into For - When we experience obstacles, it feels like life is coming at us and happening to us. We
get frustrated that our road to success is littered with bumps and roadblocks. However, if we were to welcome those bumps as a necessary part of our journey designed to help us wake up to ourselves, the sudden jolts could be used to spur us on to a greater part of ourselves. Instead of obstacles happening to you, see your obstacles happening for you as a valuable lesson that only your soul can
receive through your hardship. Receive it as the golden path to your growth.
Larry, in a stalemate with his boss, started finding quicker solutions when he viewed his resistance as happening for him, providing a space to focus less on his point of view and more on unifying cooperation with his management team.
If into When - many times we feel like our pain will never end. We get stuck in stagnation and the suffering persists. 98% of pain is temporary. We can adjust our thinking, shifting if the pain will ever end
into when it will. This too shall pass. When we change our if into when, the mind begins to assume an end date and prepares for it. When we change our focus off of the pain and into the time and space without it, life gets
better immediately. We can then look forward to a pain free life. And sure enough one day it comes to completion.
Amy, in a stagnate ten year marriage, jumped for joy and excitement the moment
it sunk in that her suffering would end on her own terms. She chose to believe the end of marital pain was near and two months later it was. She claimed her power back and a new start by simply making this one word shift in her vocabulary.
But into And - have you ever heard someone describe a person so beautifully then follow up with but and negate the whole compliment? Like this, Lilly is a very smart woman, but she isn’t a good teammate. The but negates the first part of the sentence (a smart woman) which shifts the focus straight to the undesirable
part.
Using and instead keeps the compliment alive and adds to the feeling as well. Lilly is a very smart woman and she is improving her team skills. Big difference.
When I began using and as
my conjunction of choice, I saw, heard, and felt everything more inclusively. It changed my perspective into a space of connection rather than separation.
And is a conjunction that joins two or more items. When used in all of our relationships, it can make a person feel included and valued.
There is a solid basis of evidence that our most intense pain is centered in feelings of disconnection from others and ourselves.
By changing three
little words in your vocabulary, you can elevate how you relate to others and step into a better version of yourself.
Adjusting To into Forgives you an understanding that your obstacles are there for you to conquer and a necessary part of the journey to ultimate growth. Welcome those obstacles in.
Changing If into When gives your mind comfort and anticipation that suffering is temporary in nature and the end is on its way.
Lastly, replacing But for And offers a bridge of validation and connection to others and yourself that will serve you for a lifetime.
Relatively simple to implement, these three little words can have a tremendous impact on your perspective and bolster your ability to find solutions amid life’s toughest difficulties.
I'm Back From Kidney
Donation!
Thank you to all who prayed, wrote, called, sent a note, sent me a message on Facebook and generally thought of me during my kidney donation. I donated on February 27th of this year and its taken a good eight weeks to get back to normal.
I feel like this was a call from God to help another person in this way. Lo and behold through God's graces, we helped five others get kidneys as well!
Thank you also for
sticking with me on this roller coaster ride. When I wasn't able to donate in May of 2017 to Tony Chhim as was originally scheduled, I was pretty heartbroken. I believed then that God had a bigger plan. Fast forward to January 2018 and I got the call for donation to an unknown person in exchange for elevating Tony on the transplant list.
Little did I know that my donation was the anchor for a five person kidney exchange criss-crossing the country over a three day period. This was a truly an unbelievable blessing for me and the recipients. It was also additional proof to me that God was not only answering my prayers, but multiplying them as well.
And the greatest of news just arrived. Tony will finally be getting a kidney of his own on May 29th!
God is good all the time! I plan on speaking about this amazing story and witnessing to God's holy graces in 2018 and beyond. This was a
blessed miracle that entered my life and it has changed me for the better in so many ways!
Thank you for assisting me in prayer and well wishes. I truly appreciate them all!
The Secret to Peace
Get quiet for a few moments today and find the peace that lies on the inside. Feeling that and sharing it with others spreads it far and wide. This is how peace comes into the world on a large scale.
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Forgiveness Through Christ Experience Workshops 2018
Forgiveness Workshop Registration is Now Open!
The next Forgiveness Through Christ Experience is set for Saturday, July 14th, 2018 and we are looking forward to seeing you! Now with
a new segment and exercise that is amazingly refreshing!
The July 14th Workshop is open for registration. Please register online to ensure your seat. We invite all alumni back to experience the new and improved workshop!
Forgiveness Through Christ Experience (FTCE) is a unique healing experience in which you learn tools in one day that you will use for a lifetime. It is an opportunity for emotional healing and a spiritual tune-up from Christ centered principles that will leave you feeling lighter, clearer, and
freer.
Comments from recent Workshops
"This workshop was extraordinary!" - L
Rostig
"A deeply, profoundly moving experience." - B Harris
"I knew it would be amazing...and it was!" - S Baur
Upcoming Workshops - Save the Dates!
Forgive and Find Peace Workshop
Forgiveness Through Christ
Experience, Saturday, July 14, 2018
Forgiveness Through Christ Experience, Saturday, November 3, 2018
8191 Dogwood Rd
Germantown, TN 39139
9:00 AM - 4:00 PM
If you want to bring the how to tools of forgiveness to your group or community, contact us. I will be happy to come to you!
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