[X&Y] "If I Could Get The First Date, I'd Be Fine"

Published: Fri, 04/19/24



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IN THIS EDITION: There's one VERY important strategy
to attracting women that most "average" guys overlook.

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THE FORMULA FOR APPROACHING WOMEN...WHAT IS IT?


In today's newsletter I'm going to shine the light on a major
factor that very well could keep you from "barking up the wrong
tree" ever again when it comes to meeting women.

But you know what? You've still got to have a bulletproof PLAN OF
ACTION for when the time comes that you're face to face with her
and it's time to invite her to spend time with you.

So how are you going to get such a plan?  That's actually the EASY
part. Here you go (and you can thank me later):



The Easy Way To Meet Women



You want to meet a great woman, but you don't want to come off as
corny or even creepy.

And you definitely don't want it to seem as if you're "hitting on
her".

But if you do NOTHING...then BOOM! She's gone from your life
FOREVER.

And then you're left to wonder about "the one that got away". And
that just sucks.

Come on, man... Instead, why not equip yourself with THE best
way to "break the ice" with women?

Why not give yourself a real, proven FORMULA for success?



Surefire Success When Meeting Women



I'll tell you, the website linked to above has done all the "heavy
lifting" for you.

All that's left is for you to get your hands on this formula and start
chocking your schedule FULL of women.



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"IF I COULD JUST ACTUALLY GET HER ON A FIRST DATE,
I'D BE FINE"


I can't believe how many normal, decent guys I've heard repeat the
subject line of this newsletter, or something similar.

In fact, I'm raising my own hand.

I remember feeling the frustration.  It seemed so overwhelmingly
difficult to get women to take notice of me, let alone create a
situation where I could actually meet them.

But man...I just KNEW that if I could only get a chick to agree to a
date and get her into some sort of 1-on-1 conversation, she'd
probably like me.

Well, the truth is that most of us aren't the type of guy who is
going to attract women like a super magnet simply by walking into
a room. 

So it's not like we have to (get to?) fight women off with a stick
who all want to have our children even before they've met us.

You truly do have to find a way to somehow get their attention to
begin with before that all-important first meeting can happen.

So what do we try to do?

We go to bars and clubs, fighting crowds of other guys--all of whom
are trying to "out alpha" each other.

Or, if we're truly brave we stop a woman on the street and attempt
to get her number.

Maybe we even go online, but without a whole lot of knowledge about
how to really "work the system" to our advantage.

And in every one of those situations, what happens?  We end up
being "just another random guy" to any women we happen to meet.

As such, things might not always go as expected.  My might actually
end up dejected and disconcerted sooner than later. Then we just
stop asking women out altogether.

Now listen.  I'm a huge proponent of online dating, as you know.
And yes, I've got a really effective program all about how to meet
women that's gotten superlative results for all sorts of guys.

But once and for all, I think it's time to spell out something SO
BASIC, yet which SO FEW guys actually ever figure out:


  What YOU need, my good man, is a VENUE.


"Good grief, what could you possibly mean by that?", you might
say.

I'm glad you asked.

Here's the thing.  Women are turned on sexually via a different
process than what most of us as men can relate to.

Sure, they're initially looking to see if you're the kind of man
who does the best with what he's got.  They also want to know
that you're "socially acceptable" instead of some creepazoid.

And hey...for most of us, it's not a big deal to check those two
boxes.  (By the way, if it IS a big deal for you there's good news:
 You actually have BOTH of those factors within your realm of
personal control, so get on it.)

But see, what women really get turned on by is understanding
what a "big four" man you are.

Are you truly confident?  Are you a MAN in the way they define
it? Can you make them feel safe and comfortable in your
presence on a consistent basis?  What's your character like?

Truth be told, they simply cannot go through all those motions
during some sort of "hit and run" pickup scenario.  It's
logistically impossible, most of the time.

So what's the best way to engage women in a way that's more
likely to lead to that coveted first meeting?

It's simply to give yourself a VENUE where you can tangibly
demonstrate the kind of guy you are.  You know, a VENUE...a
real, brick-and-mortar location where something is actually
HAPPENING that involves both you and some high quality
women.

Night classes, MeetUp groups, seminars, Chamber of
Commerce functions, co-ed sports and volunteering for charity
events all classify.

As long as you have a clear opportunity for interpersonal
interaction with others and to demonstrate who the heck you
are you've got a VENUE.

See how that gives you an advantage?

Essentially, you get to create the full mental image in a
woman's mind of what it would probably be like to hang out
with you.

She gets a much clearer insight into your "big four" traits up
front than she ever could if you had just walked up to her at
the supermarket and introduced yourself.

Therefore, she's already turned on by you by the time you
introduce yourself to her and get her number.  She may have
even been interacting with you directly the whole time, which
makes it that much easier on you to make plans with her.

Seriously...it all makes perfect sense when you think about it,
doesn't it?

Listen.  By all means, if you spy a sexy woman at the grocery
store who you instinctively know you'll never see again unless
you act on the spot, by all means do the right thing and meet
her.

But if you really want to make it infinitely easier on yourself to
get more first dates with women, get a VENUE.
 

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