[X&Y] You Become Her Hero When You Do This
Published: Fri, 08/30/19
IN THIS EDITION: Making her feel safe and comfortable in your
presence? That's only the start...
THE THREE TEXT MESSAGES THAT WORK AMAZINGLY WELL
What if you could do ALL of the following with just three simple
* Get out of the "Just Be Friends Zone"
* Jump start things with a girl who is "slipping away" (without
coming across as desperate)
* Get a girl you just met fighting for your attention and trying
to win you over
Here's how it's done:
Text Messages That Work
Knowing about these texts is like having three golden keys that can
unlock any woman's wild attraction sensors at will.
You don't ever have to stare at your smart phone struggling with
"writer's block" ever again.
Take it from one of the smartest guys in the world of dating and
seduction advice...he's right on the money here:
3 Simple Texts That Work Amazingly Well With Women
YOU BECOME HER HERO WHEN YOU DO THIS
Let's say you succeed at making a woman feel a deep, animal
attraction for you. There's no worry about the dreaded "Just Be
That's all well and good, but you really only have to cover the
first two of the "big four" to get there.
You got it...being 1) confident in your inherent desirability to
women and 2) portraying masculinity as women define it are more
than enough to keep you from getting "JBFed".
But there's more, of course.
As I've said before, if you can make a woman feel safe and
comfortable in your presence then just about anything goes.
Not only is she attracted, but she'll be comfortable acting on that
attraction with you. You can let your imagination run wild with
But lately I've been thinking about this third component of the
"big four" a bit more closely.
Whether you classify it as a trait or a habit, isn't providing security
to a woman rolled up under the whole "masculinity" heading?
I mean, if you think about it, that's a big part of what transforms
a mere male humanoid a real man in a woman's eyes.
You know the drill. It's all part of being a leader, provider and
protector, etcetera, etcetera. Right?
So maybe it's time to fine-tune that third pillar of the "big four"
I submit to you the idea of...[drum roll]...establishing ongoing
Can you convince her that you're going to use your physical
strength (which is probably greater than hers) along with your
emotional and maybe even your intellectual strength to protect
her instead of to harm her?
If she's worried at all about it, she doesn't trust that you have
her best interests at heart.
But if she believes you can--and will--take an active role in
protecting her from whatever external or third-party forces may
ever seek to cause her harm, then you're in.
That's what will cause her to relax in your presence and willingly
come along for the ride.
Give this some serious thought, because what I'm talking about here
is indeed deeper than simply going through the motions of making
her feel safe and secure in your presence.
This involves her assessment of how your ability to protect her
intersects with your real-world intentions...not just in the moment,
but over the longer term.
That is to say, in her mind you're going to either be part of the
problem or part of the solution.
As a man, you have the power to represent her worst nightmares,
or to instead represent a cocoon of protection from such harm.
You successfully differentiate yourself from the bad guys by
looking out for her. Most of us, of course, are good men at heart,
and we look forward to being this guy for a woman.
So no problem.
But wait...this clearly goes far beyond simple physical protection.
She also wants to know if you're a protector or a destroyer when it
comes to her emotions and her human needs.
If you're selfish, pushy or using trickery, you can't be on the winning
end of that spectrum.
A manipulative, narcissistic man may fool a weak-willed or naïve
woman for a short time, but ultimately it's still like putting lipstick on
At the end of the day, it's the guy who can make a woman trust his
genuine intention to protect her at every level who succeeds at
freeing her to express her wild, vixen-like sexuality with him.
You become her hero at that point.
And yes...that can happen sooner than later.
Once again, I've given you a clear differentiation here between
what SELLS to "newbies" and what actually WORKS with women.
Naturals already know the difference. Do you?
P.S. You may be wondering about how that all-important fourth
element of the "big four", character, fits into the equation.
Well, it doesn't change.
But I will say this...if you can do what I just shared with you
above, you'll go a long way toward demonstrating that you indeed
ARE a man of character.
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