The last gift was a trip
to Disney World my mom put took me on not long after my parents divorced. She packed my four sisters and two brothers into our massive Econoline 15 passenger van and took the drive across the Chesapeake Bay Bridge and on to the most magical place on earth.
Before my mom and dad divorced we had a comfortable middle class life. We lived in a big house with a garden in the front, swing set in the back and no real want for anything. After they separated, our lives became dramatically more stressful (we would go on to be evicted from 3 houses in the next several years).
I wouldn't say that trip to Disney was the best financial decision; but damn if it wasn't a sweet one. My mom knew that things were about to change for us and moved a minor mountain to give us a spellbinding adventure.
One night from that trip stand out to me most. My mom took a few hours to visit the park with me alone. We spent the twilight cycling through my favorite ride, Space mountain. The thing I remember most vividly wasn't the ride. It was riding the tram to and from the park, talking with my mom about all the trivial
things that seem like the world to an 11 year old.
My mom taught me how small actions that show care and interest in someone are often the things that actually make a mark on their life.
These three gifts hold a lesson: success and growth depend on the people around us.
As we navigate life, let's remember to give generously and appreciate the gifts, both big and small, that have formed us.
I'd love to hear what gift had the biggest, most surprising impact on your life.
✌️ Chris