Hi ,
How are you?
Can you believe we're in the final month of 2017?
How are you feeling about it?
I started
2017 feeling lost and dazed but by April I began to get back into my stride. I was lucky enough to have 2 holidays this year, both to the Caribbean and both spending quality time with family.
After returning from my first holiday in the summer I came back feeling refreshed with real clarity about what I want my life to look and feel like going forward. I felt energised and motivated.
But as we approach the end of the year, I'm feeling slightly overwhelmed.
I've come to realise that I don't do well with blank canvases, which is technically what a new year is.
I'm that person that's scared to add the first stroke, just in case it's the wrong colour
or I mess it up.
I'm scared of getting things wrong.
Can you relate?
Thankfully, I am at a point in my life where I still take action despite the
fear of making a mistake. And the way I do this is with extensive (probably too much) research and pages of journaling. It helps me to tap into my inner voice and move forward with as much confidence as possible.
I know that mistakes or wrong turns are an inevitable part of life. I also know that they are necessary for our growth and progression. They just don't always
feel good. And that's what I tend to remember, how awful a mistake feels.
With that said, as well as my apprehension, I am also looking forward to 2018. Despite often feeling nervous about new starts, they do also excite me. They are full of opportunities and possibilities. And so, for the remainder of 2017 I'm going to reflect on all the amazing memories as well
as anything that didn't go to plan so I can start the new year with an abundant mentality, feeling grateful and full of optimism.
What are your plans for December? How will you reflect on the past 11 months?
Even if it's been a challenging year, look for the
glimmers of light that you experienced. Be sure to acknowledge those too.
And remember, time is actually a man-made construct so you don't even have to wait until January to start over. Every single day of your life counts so if you're unhappy with something, make a change today, no matter how small.
