How To Be A Strong Masculine Man

Published: Fri, 01/20/23

Hey brother,

"She says she doesn't trust me anymore."

"She won't even talk to me about why she's so mad."

"She doesn't believe I'm ever going to change."

These are some of the most common things guys tell me when intimacy and sex are disappearing in their relationship.

They want to know why it's happening. What is she thinking? How do I FIX this.

The first part of understanding where you are right now is to understand how you got here.

The most important part of healing requires we admit we have a problem.

What's the problem?

Distancing, disconnection and distrust are almost always created by the same thing.

It's usually NOT what we've done...it's what we didn't do.

I'm not blaming you, brother. This is a two-way street. This isn't all on your shoulders. But reversing the downward spiral needs to start with someone and that someone may as well be you.

In the video below I reveal what you need to do next. It's what should have been happening all along between the two of you.

It's scary. It's hard. It's something that most couples never do.

Instead they play games. Emotional chess, I call it. It's a slow acting poison that kills relationships and leaves people feeling drained of connection and trust.

This video also reveals the secret finale we've done at our past retreats. This blows everyone's mind!

Where do you go from here?

Good question.

A lot of damage has been done and you've got no idea if you can pull out of this mess. The uncertainty right now is killing you.

There is only ONE WAY out. You have to choose to change YOU.

There's no changing her, no fixing her, no convincing her and no reasoning with her.

She needs to trust again.

And that simply cannot happen without a consistent, committed effort on your part. Your efforts need to be ones you want to make for you....no matter what outcome occurs.

This is an effort to become the confident, honest, open, independent, decisive, clear headed man you want to be .

I help men do this through an intense, laser focused process of self-discovery and change.

The creates a rapid decrease in anxiety and increase in confidence and clarity.

And sometimes it makes a drastic improvement in their relationship.

But that's not the point.

You have to keep your eye on the ball.

We don't measure our success as a man by the reactions of others or by the outcomes we hope for. We have no control over those.

We measure our success by the degree to which we've met our own standards for character, emotional honesty, transparency and vulnerability.

That's the strongest and most trustworthy place to live from.

And it's only from there where she just might realize she can trust again.

Are you ready to build a foundation of trust with her again? Below are some options for you to get started right away...

Free: Go HERE to apply for a Free "Step Into Your Masculine Strength" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow.

Free: Take Our Attractive Husband Self Assessment Here >>

$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in the Men’s Roundtable which is our community of powerful, successful men learning and supporting each other to become leaders in their relationships.

$497: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, coach Tim Wade, and community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

Custom coaching package: Our 1-to-1 Masculine Confidence coaching programs are the fastest way to realizing your full potential as a man on a mission to create the life and relationships you really want.

As Teddy Roosevelt said:
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

I simply LOVE doing this work with men because it lights up my life to watch you charge back into your life with a grin on your face and swagger in your step.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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