The Truth About Your Fear of Divorce
The truth is that behind the scary curtain of divorce...things aren't as terrifying as they seem.
There's no questioning the incredibly crappy prospect of losing the family unit, full time with your kids, your wife and about half your wealth.
It does suck and it's not the least bit fun.
But...feeling gripped with fear, resentment, anger and sadness will ruin any chance you have at improving things. Those feelings will make you think, say and do a variety of stupid things that will only make matters worse. (hey, I'm an expert on that)
And if you can't find your way to a calmer, more confident frame of mind now, a post divorce life won't look very good either...guaranteed.
If you're like most men I work with the current version of your marriage isn't serving you all that well.
The lack of closeness, connection, passion, respect, trust and intimacy of any kind have reached record levels.
Saving this
marriage as it is doesn't sound so great.
You need to start looking at this as an opportunity for improvement rather than a death sentence.
With a clearer, stronger and more confident mindset, you will start to see that your life is about to get better - much better - one way or another.
And with this mindset you will relax and start thinking, doing and saying the things that reflect your true values and the life you really want to create.
Do you want to feel more relaxed and confident?
Who doesn't?
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