The Simple (and scary) Cure for Jealousy

Published: Sun, 02/12/23

Hey brother,

I just shot an 11 minute video about JEALOUSY and I think you may want to watch it.

That is, if you have a jealous bone in your body, you need to watch it.

And, if you have the WORST kind of jealousy that is based in the absolutely GUTTED feeling of suspicion...that you've been betrayed, duped, disrespected, dismissed, replaced or rejected...I made the video for you.

In this video, I address:

The common, bottom line in ALL types of jealousy
Jealousy based in "hunger" vs "envy"
Jealousy based in scarcity, fear and comparison
And the worst one...jealousy based in shame and unworthiness

The Simple and Scary Cure for Jealousy

Don't you hate it when people give useless advice like:

"Hey, just don't thing about it." or,

"Hey, you're making too much of this." or,

"Hey, just stop obsessing about it and let it go."

The problem with curing jealousy is that we must goes deeper into the fear behind the jealous fears in your mind.

Jealousy isn't just about your head being filled up with stories and imagined fears.

Jealousy is about an EMPTINESS inside of you that NO AMOUNT OF EXTERNAL ASSURANCE CAN FIX.

As I said in the video, insecurity is the #1 Human Emotional Disease.

Food craving is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of hunger.

Envying other people's lives or possessions is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of not being enough.

Protecting or defending our wealth, reputation or honor is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of a scarcity mindset.

And feeling gutted by the suspicion of betrayal, disrespect or rejection is caused by the empty, insecure and shameful feeling of unworthiness.

It's that last one that brings most men into the Goodguys2Greatmen community.

That one HURTS the most. And men don't ask for help unless the pain level has reached epic proportions.

The scary cure for jealousy is LEARNING THAT YOU ARE WORTHY.

Notice I did NOT say, "learning to become worthy".

Being worthy is not a place to get to. You're already there, brother.

It never actually left you.

What you must learn now is how to make your natural, inherent worthiness and value a PLACE TO COME FROM.

When you learn to come from a place of worthiness, jealousy simply can't survive.

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Are you ready to ask for help yet?

I've got two ideas for you.

One you can do privately and not have to talk to anyone!

And the other involves a very deep, intimate and powerful conversation. (of course, you could choose both if you want)

Option#1

Enroll in our online course, How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb and discover the deep, dark and funny journey to reclaiming your confidence and your worthiness. Coach Tim Wade and I are your personal, man-to-man coaches with over 9 hours of crystal clear coaching. The bonus lessons and live session recordings are all included as well as lifetime membership in the private (and very active!) discussion forum. And if you hit reply to this email and say, "Steve, I want the 50% discount, please", I'll give you a personal link to enroll for half the price.

Option #2

Free: Go HERE to apply for a Free "Never Jealous Again" coaching call to learn exactly how you can start changing things tomorrow. If you don't decide to ask for help, nobody else is coming to help you. These calls are incredibly INTIMATE. So buckle up.

Two options. I double-dog-dare-you to pick one and follow through.

You'll never look back. Promise.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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