Hey brother,
At the beginning of every retreat we ask each man, "Why did you decide to come here?"
The answer usually sounds something like this:
"I want more personal connection with men like me."
"I never do anything just for me...it was time."
"I want to feel more clear and confident about who I am."
"My wife loves it when I
come back from spending time with the boys."
One woman put it this way:
"I love it when he has a sparkle in his eye...I just don't want to be that
sparkle."
This needs little explanation. It's one of the most basic principles of attraction. Some people explain it as an energetic "polarity" between masculine and feminine energy.
I like
to keep things simple without the psychobabble.
Women tend to experience more connection, attraction, respect and desire for a man who has an enthusiastic and unapologetic zest for life. A man who has a consistent sense of well-being, healthy connections with other people and a confident sense of his own value is a joy to be around...for everyone is
his life.
That's the mission, brother. Simple It's the only thing you can control and, luckily, it's the most important thing.
It's common for men to "shrink" a little in their lives and relationships as time goes by. Our lives get a little smaller and our circle of friends tends to evaporate. We get stuck in the rut of working and providing. We feel bored and we're boring to be with.
This was my story anyway. What about you?
Getting more clear, more connected, more grounded and more happy will have the single largest impact on your life and relationship.
The retreats we organize are first and foremost for US.
It's selfish really.
We design the retreats to be an experience we want no matter who shows up. But it's more fun when a few good men choose to join us.
