Has Your Wife Said "You Always Make It About You!"

Published: Tue, 02/21/23

Hey brother,

I used to think there was nothing scarier or more unpleasant than an angry woman.

I grew up with the belief that "If Momma Ain't Happy, then Nobody Will be Happy".

Later in life that turned into a belief in the "Happy Wife, Happy Life" load of B.S.

I'm smarter now. The school of hard knocks was a bitch, but a necessary phase of my growth.

Here's what I want you to know about angry women.

It's perfectly acceptable for them to be moody, crabby, crampy, pouty, pissy and angry without you making it all about you.

What do I mean by that?

I mean that if you grew up like I did you will try to immediately address, confront and FIX an unhappy woman just because YOU are uncomfortable with her unhappiness.

This is the big stupid mistake we make.

There is a better way to handle it that ends with better feelings, more respect and more attraction.

And I will guarantee you that her anger will subside much more quickly.

There's a caveat to this, of course. That's when her anger is rightfully directed at you for a valid reason.

I explain things in more detail in this video.

Has Your Wife Said You Always Make It About You!

The secret to handling her anger is to stand strong, unrattled, present, available and curious.

As I explained in the video, if you know you screwed up then OWN IT immediately. No excuses. No silly defense.

When she can experience you handling her anger with calm, unrattled presence she can trust that you won't overreact or get defensive.

When you are confident in yourself and don't try to fix her anger to make YOU feel better you will instantly become more attractive.

That's important to you...no?

What's even better than being attractive to her is the feeling of confidence and approval within yourself.

How do you do this?

You learn this with the support of other great men who are on the same path as you.

These are men who want more confidence, self-respect and a mojo level that is throbbing with optimism and courage. Yeah...I said throbbing.

Next Steps? Make it about you and learn how to handle anger and any other conflict with confidence and leadership.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:
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I simply LOVE doing this work with men because it lights up my life to watch you charge back into your life with a grin on your face and swagger in your step.

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

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