How To Use Your Masculine Power Wisely

Published: Tue, 04/02/24

Hey brother,

I want to warn you about something, it can happen to any of us when we get the first glimpse of the elusive thing we call MOJO.

When you take the leap of commitment into this work of learning (re-learning) the source of your masculine strength and confidence, you feel REAL CHANGES in your belief in yourself. You get super clear, like never before, on what you want from yourself, from your life and from your relationship.

You feel stronger than ever before.

You feel bold and courageous.

Sometimes for the first time ever.

It's not an aggressive strength. It comes from a place of vulnerability, honesty, empathy and compassion you haven't allowed to surface before.

And this is where you may make the big mistake.

Excitement and urgency fills your veins. You want the world to see the emerging new you. You want to talk about it and patch up old hurts and mistakes...quickly.

You want your woman to feel your changes like you do and you want her to acknowledge them. You feel like you're finally on the right track and you want her to join you.

Slow down, brother. Breathe. Relax.

You've only reached the "launching point" of your new mojo. It's powerful and it's tempting to go full throttle.

But you're not ready for that yet. Neither is she.

You need to settle into it and practice. Walk before you run.

Spend time with the men and sharpen your understanding and application of your new power. Make it real for you and be consistent.

Your question may be, "How long will it be before I start seeing changes in her and my relationship?"

Nobody knows the answer to that right now.

You must trust that you are on the right path and no matter what happens, you've found the most important key to your happiness and well being. And this is your mojo.

Your good will come. Promise.

I explain more in this video:

A calm and confident man is also a patient man - he knows he's on the path to creating the life he truly wants so he can relax and slow down.

Patience at this time is excruciating and there’s no guarantee she will change anytime soon – if at all.

I know. It’s like being crushed by your own car and having the paramedic say, “Sir, I need you to stay calm.” You know he’s probably right, but he doesn’t have a freaking car sitting on his chest.

You need to breathe, get a grip and stay focused here.

The Best Thing You Can Do Isn’t “Doing” Anything

...It’s “Being”

This is not going to be easy.

You’re going to have to take a leap of faith that I know what I’m talking about.

The best gift you can give to yourself and her right now is a consistent energy of calm confidence.

You don’t need to physically do anything.

All you need to be is unshaken, cool headed and compassionate.

You need to be focused on how you are thinking about this.

Don't let her emotions dictate your emotions. Nothing good happens when you do that.

Your focus needs to be firmly planted on you right now.

Allow your pulse and breathing to slow. Then it will be possible for her to feel your energy change.

This is a key part of your mojo transformation that will change all of your relationships.

When you can slow down and SHOW your direction consistently through actions, she can start to trust your clear, calm, confident strength again.

From my experience, this is often the only thing she really needs from you at this very moment.

Patience brother.

I help guys through this process all day every day and I'd love to help you too.

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Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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