How To Be Calm When Everyone Around You Is Freaking Out!

Published: Tue, 04/23/24

Hey brother,

Only TWO THINGS can change your life as it is right this moment.

1. Something new comes into it without your permission.

2. Something new comes out of you from your INTENTION and ACTION.

Tell me something NEW that has come out of you lately.

What bold action have you taken lately to create a stir and shake up your life?

This email is about ACTION.

Today I'm not giving tips on what to do. I'm telling you the secret about HOW MEN ACTUALLY CREATE WHAT THEY WANT.

It's about putting away the books, videos and podcasts for awhile and turning all that "What to Do" knowledge into "How to Do It" ACTION.

It involves a little risk. A tad bit of vulnerability. And a bit of the unknown.

The good news?

Statistics are with you.

I've figured that about FIVE PERCENT of the adult male population makes it as far as you have.

The rest are waiting for something new to come into their lives. And they're feeling pissed, frustrated, angry, depressed and hopeless.

But you've made it past the barrier of fear.

You're here now and ready to take action.

Don't be like most men.

You read a book, watch a video or listen to podcast and get all AMPED UP for, oh let's say...about 4 hours.

Then what?

Nothing.

No action.

The sizzle fizzles.

The high is gone.

And NOBODY is around to see you slide back into your comfort zone doing nothing.

And you feel like shit for allowing it yourself.

I explain more in this video:

How To Be Calm When Everyone Around You Is Freaking Out!

The biggest obstacle to a man getting what he wants, is to spend too much time thinking about it and not taking action

Confidence Is Not A Prerequisite To Taking Action…It’s A Result.

This is why I recommend that you slow way down on the videos and self-help books until you’ve actually implemented ONE IDEA you’ve learned so far.

Don’t get tangled up in self-help hell. 90% of the stuff we read is saying the same thing.

The missing link is action.

And if you think your NEXT action step is to talk with someone who can help you, then do it.

There are people who have done what you want to accomplish and it’s not weak to ask them for help.

They’ve already made the mistakes necessary to help you avoid them.

We do dozens of free consultation calls every month for men who are ready to take the next logical step.

I can make a guarantee for you right now. I guarantee that the discomfort level of whatever relationship or marriage nightmare you’re experiencing will be reduced from Level 10 to Level 5 in ONE HOUR.

I know this because I know when you speak to someone who has been in your shoes your fear and loneliness level always drops about 50%.

And we can help you get very clear on what action you want to take to start feeling like you're moving forward again and regaining a little self respect and confidence again.

If you're ready to start turning all your information into action then here are 4 ways we can help you:

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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